4 Signs He Is Not That Into You: Are you hesitant to approach your partner about committing initially because you’re not certain this is what they want in the long run?
Do you have a case of the shivers whenever you try to ask a true relationship question? not because you’re worried this is the person you desire, but because you’re terrified of rejection? Do you adore him but are unsure that he feels the same way?
The first thing to grasp is the male mind’s operation. To begin, you must recognize that men are simple beings. Have you ever pondered why a man rarely believes a lady is out of reach? It is because his mind is wired to assume that if he desires something, he will pursue it; in fact, he often knows within the first few minutes. And wow, is it difficult to decipher his thoughts.
Because life is too short to spend years deciphering whether he is willing to commit, here are four techniques to determine his motivation:
“Oops! Not paying attention, “You’re probably considering something. While attention is beneficial, when it feels rushed or overpowering, it may be a case of “too much of a good thing is a bad thing.” This is especially detrimental if he lavishes you with attention only when it is convenient for him and only focuses on his needs or when he is yearning for anything from you. If this becomes a pattern, you may be in for a difficult time.
People are rarely willing to commit to anything that makes them feel uneasy. They can only attempt to persevere, but even this will finally fail. When a guy makes a long-term commitment, he envisions his partner as a part of his future—goals, ambitions, and aspirations.
Therefore, while we hate to break it to you, if he says he wants to “enjoy the flow,” “take things as they come,” or gets insulted or avoids the topic when you ask him, he is most likely not going to bring it up… at least not to you.
Men are said to be more $exual than women, which provides as fuel for thought. Even if this is true, Steve Harvey discusses the 90-day rule in his book “Act like a lady, think like a guy.” This is not to suggest that the 90-day rule applies literally, but rather that a man who is willing to commit can respect this decision as long as it makes you happy. When he asks too soon—say, on the first, second, or third date—or when he casually makes sexual remarks at any available opportunity, that may be all he wants.
Not over his ex-girlfriend
Are you familiar with Lionel Richie’s now-famous song title, “Stuck on you”? Certain ex-partners are still haunted by their past. It is one of the most painful things a person may go through in a relationship.
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If he continues to speak passionately about her, regardless of how you feel, there is a strong possibility that he is not over his past.
What are your options if your partner demonstrates any of the signs?
Be self-centered in your pursuit of happiness. Regardless of how hard you try to stay, you will wind up harming yourself in the long term.
A man who wishes to be retained will be retained. If you notice signals that he is not yet prepared to commit, please remove yourself from the situation.
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